Collapses don’t happen in a vacuum. They are usually provoked by situations that challenge the narcissist’s sense of control or superiority, such as:
- Being ignored or excluded
- Receiving criticism or feedback, even when it’s constructive
- Being held accountable for bad behavior or poor decisions
- Facing failure in personal, professional, or social settings
- Loss of admiration or attention from others
These events strike at the heart of a narcissist’s identity, forcing them to confront the reality that they are not infallible—and that others may not see them the way they see themselves.
