Relationships with narcissists often begin like something out of a storybook. They sweep you off your feet with extravagant gestures, constant attention, and seemingly boundless affection. It’s intoxicating. But this “love bombing” isn’t genuine—it’s a calculated effort to hook you emotionally.
By showering you with praise, gifts, and attention, the narcissist isn’t showing love—they’re laying a trap. They’re creating an illusion of connection and security to pull you into a dynamic that revolves around control. Once you’re emotionally invested, the tone starts to shift.